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SSS. Module 14: Barking, Whining & Attention-Seeking

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Reduce excessive noise by addressing the root cause. You’ll learn how to teach calm alternatives without punishment or stress.

This is one of the most important modules in the entire course because barking, whining, and attention-seeking are the behaviours owners struggle with the most — and also misunderstand the most.

This module finally gives you a clear, simple framework for reducing noise, preventing emotional overflow, and teaching calm behaviour without yelling, punishing, or worsening anxiety.

Understand the cause behind your dog’s vocal behaviour, fix the root issue, and build calm alternatives without stress or punishment.

Barking and whining are normal dog communication, but when they’re constant or inappropriate, they become stressful for both dog and owner.

The key is to identify WHY your dog is vocalising — because each type of barking requires a different solution.

This module breaks it all down.

🔵 1. The 6 Types of Barking (and What They Mean)

Almost all barking falls into one of these categories:

 1. Alert Barking (“Something is there!”)

Triggered by:

  • noises
  • people walking past
  • knocking
  • delivery drivers

Purpose: alert the household.

Solution:

  • acknowledge the alert
  • reward quiet
  • reduce window access
  • teach calm routines

 2. Excitement Barking (“I’m so excited!”)

Triggered by:

  • play
  • visitors
  • seeing dogs
  • anticipation

Purpose: emotional overflow.

Solution:

  • reduce arousal
  • build impulse control
  • use calm rewards

 3. Frustration Barking (“I want that!”)

Triggered by:

  • being on leash
  • blocked access
  • waiting for something

Purpose: release emotional tension.

Solution:

  • reward calmness
  • reduce frustration triggers
  • teach alternate behaviours

 4. Fear/Anxiety Barking (“I’m scared!”)

Triggered by:

  • strangers
  • sudden noises
  • new situations
  • previous trauma

Purpose: increase distance or safety.

Solution:

  • increase distance
  • remove pressure
  • counterconditioning
  • calm handling

 5. Attention-Seeking Barking (“Look at me!”)

Triggered by:

  • boredom
  • habit
  • owner accidentally reinforcing it

Purpose: get attention, play, touch, food, anything.

Solution:

  • stop rewarding the behaviour
  • reward quiet
  • add mental enrichment

 6. Boredom / Under-Stimulation Barking

Triggered by:

  • lack of exercise
  • lack of mental work
  • long periods alone
  • unmet instincts

Purpose: self-entertainment.

Solution:

  • enrichment
  • exercise
  • structured routines

 

🔵 2. The 4 Types of Whining (and How to Decode Them)

Whining is softer than barking but usually more emotional.

 1. Excitement Whining

Dog cannot regulate emotions.

Fix:

  • slow movement
  • calm rewards
  • impulse control exercises 

 2. Anxiety Whining

Dog is scared or uncertain.

Fix:

  • reduce pressure
  • build confidence
  • desensitisation

 3. Demand Whining

Dog wants something now.

Fix:

  • stop responding to the whining
  • reward quiet moments
  • add structure

 4. Frustration Whining

Dog is stuck or confused.

Fix:

  • simplify training
  • reduce difficulty
  • use clearer cues

🔵 3. The 3 Rules of Fixing Barking & Whining

These three rules make everything easier and prevent mistakes.

 Rule 1: Do NOT punish vocal behaviour.

Punishment:

  • increases fear
  • increases anxiety
  • suppresses communication
  • makes behaviours worse later

Instead: guide, redirect, and reinforce calmness.

 Rule 2: Identify the trigger before trying to fix the behaviour.

Each trigger = different solution.

 Rule 3: Reward calm behaviour, not quiet by force.

A dog forced into silence is stressed.
A dog that chooses calmness is learning.

🔵 4. Step-by-Step Solutions — Based on the Type of Barking

Below are the exact professional protocols for each type of barking.

 A. Fixing Alert Barking

Alert barking is normal but controllable.

Step 1: Acknowledge the alert

Say:
“Thank you.”
This tells your dog you heard them.

Step 2: Move dog away from trigger

Close curtains
Create distance
Call them to another room

Step 3: Reward quiet

Dog stops barking → “Yes!” → reward
Repeat until calm.

Step 4: Teach “Quiet on cue”

  1. Say “Quiet”
  2. Reward FIRST moment of silence
  3. Gradually increase duration

Step 5: Manage environment

If possible, find a quiet environment with minimal distractions

 B. Fixing Excitement Barking

Dog is not misbehaving — they’re overstimulated.

Step 1: Reduce excitement before greeting

Module 12 routines.

Step 2: Slow everything down

Move slowly
Speak softly
Use low-value treats

Step 3: Teach calmness on cue

Mat training
Settling routines
Breathing alongside dog

Step 4: Reward calm behaviour consistently

ANY calm moment → reward.

 C. Fixing Frustration Barking

Often seen on walks.

Step 1: Increase distance

More space = less frustration.

Step 2: Teach alternate behaviours

Focus
Sit
Hand target

Step 3: Reduce leash tension

Tension increases frustration.

Step 4: Reward calm choices

ANY disengagement → reward.

 D. Fixing Fear or Anxiety Barking

Treat like an emotional problem, not disobedience.

Step 1: Increase distance immediately

Relief = learning.

Step 2: Pair scary thing with reward

Trigger appears → treat rain
Trigger disappears → stop treats

This is counterconditioning.

Step 3: Build confidence gradually

Easy exposures → tiny increments
Never flood or overwhelm. 

Step 4: Reward calm curiosity

Dog looks at trigger calmly → reward.

 E. Fixing Attention-Seeking Barking

This is simple but requires consistency.

Step 1: IGNORE barking completely

No eye contact
No touch
No voice
No movement

Step 2: Reward FIRST moment of quiet

Quiet → “Yes!” → reward
This teaches your dog what to do instead.

Step 3: Add mental enrichment

Dogs bark more when bored.

Step 4: Increase structure

A structured day = less attention-seeking.

 F. Fixing Boredom Barking

Barking is self-entertainment.

Step 1: Add mental stimulation

Puzzle toys
Scent games
Training sessions

Step 2: Add physical exercise

Walks
Play
Sniffing sessions

Step 3: Give independent activities

Kongs
Chews
Enrichment

🔵 5. Teaching the “Quiet Cue” (The Right Way)

Step 1: Capture quiet

Dog stops barking → “Yes!” → treat

Step 2: Add cue

Dog is quiet → say “Quiet” → treat

Step 3: Increase duration

1 second
2 seconds
3 seconds
5 seconds

Step 4: Use cue BEFORE barking starts

Preventative cue stops barking early.

🔵 6. Solving Whining Step-by-Step

 1. Excitement Whining Fix

  • slow movement
  • reward calmness
  • stop reinforcing hyper behaviour

 2. Anxiety Whining Fix

  • increase distance from stressor
  • build confidence
  • use enrichment
  • avoid pressure

 3. Demand Whining Fix

  • ignore whining
  • reward quiet
  • schedule attention, not spontaneous

 4. Frustration Whining Fix

  • simplify training
  • reduce difficulty
  • break tasks into smaller steps

🔵 7. Preventing Barking & Whining Before They Start

These are the professional-level prevention strategies.

 Daily Mental Enrichment

A tired brain = a quiet dog.

 Predictable Routine

Dogs bark less when life is structured.

 Clear Rules

Reduce confusion → reduce vocal behaviour.

 Confidence Building

Less anxiety = less barking.

 Physical Exercise

Not overexcitement — balanced exercise.

 Self-Soothing Skills

Mat training
Settle cue
Calm reinforcement

🔵 8. Practical Training Exercises (High-Impact)

Exercise A: Calmness Capture

Catch and reward calm moments all day.

Exercise B: Quiet Marker Training

Mark quiet behaviour with “Yes!”
Reward instantly.

Exercise C: Trigger Distance Game

Trigger appears → reward calmness
Move closer gradually.

Exercise D: “Do This Instead” Training

Replace barking with sit, down, or hand target.

Exercise E: Enrichment Rotation

Rotate 3–5 activities daily:

  • Kong
  • snuffle mat
  • puzzle toy
  • training session
  • chew item

🔵 9. What Success Looks Like After Module 14

By the end of this module, your dog will:

bark less and settle faster

whine less and communicate more appropriately

show calmer behaviour during triggers

rely less on attention-seeking

feel more confident and less anxious

know what behaviours you want instead

And YOU will:

understand WHY your dog vocalises

know EXACTLY how to respond to each type of barking

use reinforcement strategically to reduce noise

avoid the mistakes that make barking worse

build a calmer, quieter home environment

 

 

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