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SSS. Module 6: Rules, Boundaries & Daily Structure

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Discover how structure and routine reduce behaviour problems. This module shows you how to set clear rules that create calm, confident dogs.

This is one of the most transformative modules because rules and structure don’t dominate a dog — they free a dog from confusion.
A structured household creates calm, predictable behaviour and eliminates 80% of common issues.

Create a calm, predictable environment that reduces behaviour problems and builds a well-balanced, confident dog.

Dogs thrive when:

  • expectations are clear
  • routines are predictable
  • the environment is consistent
  • humans respond the same way every time

Without structure:

  • behaviour becomes chaotic
  • commands lose meaning
  • dogs become anxious or frustrated
  • owners become inconsistent
  • training progress stalls

This module teaches you how to create simple, healthy rules and household routines that naturally prevent unwanted behaviour — without fear, force, or constant micromanaging.

 

🔵 1. Why Clear Rules Create Calm Dogs

Most unwanted behaviours happen because the dog doesn’t know the rules, not because they’re misbehaving intentionally.

Dogs ask themselves:

  • “Can I jump?”
  • “Can I bark now?”
  • “Can I rush the door?”
  • “Can I pull toward that dog?”
  • “Who decides what happens next?”

If the rules change from day to day — or person to person — dogs become confused, excited, unpredictable, or anxious.

Rules create:

predictability

emotional stability

calm behaviour

confidence in the owner

fewer opportunities for bad habits

This module shows you how to build structure without becoming rigid or harsh.

🔵 2. The Three Types of Rules Every Dog Needs

 1. Environmental Rules (Where the Dog Can Be)

These rules help your dog understand:

  • which areas are free
  • which areas are “calm zones”
  • which areas require permission

Examples:

  • “Stay out of the kitchen while cooking.”
  • “Wait at doorways.”
  • “No rushing through gates.”
  • “Quiet time in crate or on mat.”

 

Environmental rules stop:

  • counter surfing
  • crowding
  • door dashing
  • chaotic greetings
  • overexcitement

 2. Behavioural Rules (What the Dog May Do)

These rules protect your dog, your home, and other people.

Examples:

  • no jumping on guests
  • no pulling on the lead
  • no barking for attention
  • no stealing food
  • calm behaviour before getting what they want

Behavioural rules stop:

  • overwhelm
  • overstimulation
  • unruly behaviour
  • attention-seeking

 3. Permission Rules (When the Dog Gets Something They Want)

This is the calmest, most powerful structure in dog training.

Anything your dog wants becomes an opportunity for training:

They want to go outside? → calm sit
They want attention? → calm behaviour
They want food? → wait calmly
They want the ball thrown? → sit first
They want to greet another dog? → loose lead first

Life rewards build incredible behaviour — without force.

🔵 3. Simple Routines That Reduce Behaviour Issues

Dogs love patterns. These routines teach your dog that calmness makes life easier and more rewarding.

 1. The “Nothing for Free” Routine (but gentle, not harsh)

This doesn’t mean dominance.
It means:
“Show me a calm behaviour, and you get what you want.”

Examples:

  • sit before meals
  • wait before doors open
  • calm body before getting patted
  • quiet before receiving attention

This eliminates:

  • pushy behaviour
  • demand barking
  • entitlement
  • chaos around excitement triggers

 2. Daily Energy Management Routine

Dogs behave badly when their mental and physical needs aren’t met.

Ideal daily structure:

  • morning sniff walk (mental exercise)
  • short training session
  • rest period
  • play session or enrichment
  • another short training session
  • evening walk or calm outing

Dogs with balanced routine = fewer unwanted habits.

 3. The Calm-Greeting Routine

Chaos at the door creates endless behaviour problems.

Teach:

  • sit calmly
  • wait on mat
  • greet only when released

This reduces:

  • jumping
  • barking
  • anxiety
  • door darting

 4. Predictable Sleep & Rest Routine

Most behaviour problems are caused by fatigue, especially in puppies.

Ideal rest:

  • puppies: 16–20 hours/day
  • teens: 14–18 hours/day
  • adults: 12–16 hours/day

Provide:

  • crate or playpen
  • quiet mat
  • predictable rest schedule

A rested dog is a well-behaved dog.

 

🔵 4. Getting the Whole Household on Board

Inconsistent humans create inconsistent dogs.
Even ONE person breaking the rules creates setbacks.

This module helps you create a Household Training Agreement.

Step 1: Identify the rules

Everyone must agree on:

  • no jumping
  • no pulling
  • where the dog may go
  • training words
  • boundaries

Step 2: Use the same cues and language

Examples:

  • “Off” (get down)
  • “Sit” (not “Sit down”)
  • “Wait” (not “Stay”)
  • “Leave it” (not “No no no no!”)

Consistency = clarity.

Step 3: Agree on reinforcement

Everyone should reward:

  • calm behaviour
  • polite greetings
  • loose-lead walking
  • checking in with owner

Reinforcing calmness is how you eliminate chaos.

Step 4: A unified response to unwanted behaviour

If your dog jumps, all humans do the same thing:

  • no engagement
  • wait for calm
  • reward calm

If your dog barks for attention:

  • no yelling
  • no touching
  • no eye contact
  • reward quiet

Every unwanted behaviour disappears when the response is consistent.

🔵 5. Practical Exercises for Module 6

These exercises transform household behaviour fast.

Exercise 1: Doorway Waiting Drill

  1. Approach door
  2. Dog must wait
  3. Say “Wait”
  4. Open door 2–3 cm
  5. If dog moves: close door
  6. When dog waits calmly: release & go through

Teaches impulse control.

Exercise 2: Calm Before Freedom

Before:

  • opening crate
  • letting dog outside
  • greeting
  • leash on
  • throwing ball

Require:

  • Sit
  • or stand calmly
  • or simply stop bouncing

Reward with the thing they wanted.

Exercise 3: Household Cue Consistency Drill

Everyone practices:

  • Sit
  • Down
  • Stay
  • Leave it
  • Wait

Same words.
Same timing.
Same rewards.

Exercise 4: Mat Training Routine

  1. Place mat
  2. Dog steps on it
  3. “Yes!” + treat
  4. Build duration
  5. Add calm rewards
  6. Release calmly

Mat = calm zone.
This fixes 90% of household chaos.

🔵 6. What Success Looks Like After Module 6

By the end of this module, your dog will:

Be calmer throughout the day

Understand household rules clearly

Show polite behaviour naturally

Be easier to manage around visitors

Show fewer behaviour issues

Be more predictable, confident, and relaxed

And YOU will:

Have a structured routine to reduce chaos

Know exactly how to maintain consistent behaviour

Feel more in control — without ever using force

Have a household that supports your training goals

Module 7 is the turning point where training goes from “managing problems” to “building a reliable dog.”

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